1. Respect Your Mother
Children.
One of the best things
a father can do for his children is to respect their mother. If you are
married, keep your marriage strong and full of vitality.
2. Take Time Together
With Your Children.
How a father spends
time saying what was important to him. If you always seem too busy for your
children, they will feel neglected no matter what you say.
3. Earn the Right to Be
Heard.
Too often the only time
a father speaks to his children is when they make a mistake. Begin talking with
your kids when they were little, so that difficult subjects will be easier to
handle as they get older. Take time and listen to ideas as well as their
problems.
4. Discipline with
Love.
All children need
guidance and discipline, not as punishment, but to set boundaries that make
sense. Remind your children of the consequences of their actions and provide
meaningful rewards for desirable behavior.
5. Role Model.
Fathers are role models
for their children, whether they realize it or not. A girl who spends time with
a loving father grows up knowing she deserves to be treated with respect by
boys, and what to look for in a husband. The father can teach his sons what is
important in life by demonstrating honesty, humility and responsibility.
6. Be a Teacher.
Too many fathers think
teaching is something others do. But a father who teaches his children about
right and wrong, and encourages them to do their best, will see his children
make good choices.
7. Eat Together as a
Family.
Sharing a meal together
(breakfast, lunch, or dinner) can be an important part of healthy family life.
In addition to providing some structure in a busy day, it gives kids the chance
to talk about what they are doing and what they want to do.
8. Recite Stories For
Your Children.
Start reading stories
to the children since they were little. When they are older, encourage them to
read on their own. Instilling a love for reading is one of the best ways to
ensure your children experience personal growth as well as a lifetime career.
9. Hold Up Love You.
Children need the
security that comes from knowing they are wanted, accepted and loved by their
family. Parents, especially fathers, need to be willing to hug their children.
Showing affection everyday is the best way to tell them that you love them.
10. Realize That A Father's
Job Is Never Done.
Even after children are
grown and ready to leave home, they will still find wisdom and advice from his
father. Whether a matter of continuing education, new job, or a wedding,
fathers continue to play an important role in the lives of their children as
they grow and, perhaps, marry and build their own families.
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