In-law
is the second person we who must be respected and cherished. But
sometimes there are laws that are too often interfering our domestic affairs. So often triggered friction
with the law. For
example, when the child cried out loud because it is not allowed to eat sweets
by their parents, but instead they allow in-laws. This is
clearly contrary to your parenting.
Especially if you are staying with in-laws house, not a problem often arises whether it is small or severe nature. To avoid conflict with the law, should these conditions should be addressed wisely and cool head.
Live at home together with brother-in-law and the other, certainly awkward and stressful every day. To avoid conflicts of interest and keep you comfortable while raising their children.
Immediately adapt to environmental law, after getting married and decided to stay together - the same in-laws' home. Then you should be able to adapt to family life environment laws. Learn the habits and character of law. Thus you can keep Bener attitude when faced husband's parents.
Define a clear boundary between your own family affairs and domestic affairs laws. For example, any job that should be done by you and which ones should not need to be handled alone.
Besides, do not overload or troublesome in-laws, such as clothes drying laundry. Cleaning new tableware used by you and the child.
Do not interfere debate family, all family definitely has its own problems - his own, including how to find a solution. If it happens in-law, should not be too much involved to interfere in the internal debate or discussion husband's family.
Mutual
respect of privacy, even if you stay at home husband's parents, you also need
privacy. Similarly,
the law also need a privacy, so respect the privacy of each - each.
0 komentar:
Post a Comment